Sunday, October 6, 2024

A Year of Endless Pain

It has been a whole year now since October 7th, the biggest single massacre of Jews since the Holocaust. There is no denying the immense trauma to Israelis and to Jews around the world. There is no denying the abhorrent rise in antisemitism that has reared its head, sometimes clumsily couched in the name of “anti-Zionism”, implying that the “good Jews” get to live free of harassment. All that being said, Israel’s campaign of revenge has resulted in Palestinians experiencing such a massacre nearly every week uninterrupted. An online acquaintance just found out his dad was killed in an Israeli airstrike. A year on, Israel is not safe, Palestine is not free, millions of homes are rubble, and hundreds of thousands are dead or injured, including tens of thousands of children. And now the endless war has expanded to Lebanon, already resulting in more deaths than the 2006 Israel/Lebanon War, with a quarter of the country evacuated, a population already severely impoverished. What has become of us? What has war brought besides death and destruction? Where have words gone except to violence and revenge? I find myself at a loss for hope. Throughout the darkness there are fleeting voices for humanity, but death has won. Hatred has won. Despair has won. Revenge has won. Personally, I can’t let go of the despair, and I have not done enough to try to take action. I am myself scared of really putting myself out there, of organizing, of making myself known.

I have lamented the utter lack of compassion for Palestinians that has permeated the American political establishment and institutional Jewish organizations. The months following July have etched that further in stone. At the Democratic Convention in August, we heard the desperate pleas from Rachel Goldberg and her husband Jon for a ceasefire and hostage deal to bring their son Hersh home. Rachel said poignantly: “There is a surplus of agony on all sides of the tragic conflict in the Middle East. In a competition of pain, there are no winners.” While Rachel truly demonstrated empathy for all, the Democratic Party apparatus only seemed to have selective empathy. For months, Palestinian Americans had been pleading for a voice at the convention to recognize their suffering. While a speaker would not alleviate the suffering or the calls for change in policy towards Israel, it would have at least shown an understanding of their pain. However, their pleas were ignored, with the Democratic Party deciding that it was not even worthwhile to give a platform trot a  Palestinian to endorse Kamala Harris on stage..

Weeks after the convention, Hersh along with five other Israeli hostages was found murdered by his captors. Looking at the tragedy of Hersh and the ensuing fallout, one can see all the raw emotions-sadness, hatred, vengeance, dehumanization that have deepened throughout the last year across all sides. Hersh was just an idealistic young man, only 23 years old, with a poster in his room that stated “Jerusalem is for all” in English, Hebrew, and Arabic. He was committed to an end to the occupation and a shared future for all faiths. And yet, his tragedy was exploited by all sides in service of disgusting war propaganda.

I do not wish again to scour the dark vestibules of the Internet in showing the exploitation of Hersh’s life and death, so you will have to trust me when I say it is beyond horrible. Among the so-called “pro-Palestinian” crowd, Hersh was labeled as worthy of demise, a colonizer, an “IOF soldier”, never mind his only role in the Israeli military was that of a medic. There is no justification for his death, and it takes a contorted mind to believe that he is the bad guy. Seeing these reactions harkened me back to the jarring conversations I had in the days following October 7th where the shameful inversion of good and evil resulted in people saying that murdered peace activist Vivian Silver was the villain while Hamas are “resistance” heroes. This echoes the persistent dehumanization of Israelis, pretending that there are no innocents, that Israeli hostages are not real humans.

On the other side, Hersh was often used as an image to boost Israel’s destruction, massacre, and torture of Palestinians. Despite his own position opposed to the occupation and his parents calling for a ceasefire, many organizations and government officials used his image to boost support for “destroying” Hamas rather than bringing about an end to the war. And on the political scene, the Biden administration’s consistent contact with Hersh’s parents as well as other Israeli hostage family members has stood in stark contrast to the response to Americans who were killed by Israeli soldiers. In February, following a drone strike from Iran that hit US soldiers in Jordan, Biden stated: "if you harm an American, we will respond.” However, following the death of American activist Aysenur Eygi at the hands of Israeli soldiers, the administration’s response was muted and deferential. Biden refused to even call family members to express condolences. The US refused to conduct any independent investigation into her death (or the shooting of another American in the West Bank or the recent death of a Lebanese American likely due to Israeli airstrikes). Instead, the administration is satisfied to keep the reins in the hands of an extremist Israeli government that has shown no interest in justice or accountability.

So a year later, we are still stuck at Square One. Activists who celebrate October 7th, contend that now “Palestine is almost free” and the “Zionist entity” will be wiped out. Jewish organizations are now beating the drums as to the necessity of defeating Hamas, Hezbollah, and now Iran in the battlefield, never mind the suffering that will ensue for millions more people. My local community is full of hurt and anger and division rather than coming together to denounce all violence and injustice. There ARE voices of hope, of compassion, of inclusivity, of radical empathy. I have been fortunate to meet several of them over the past few months, among others:
  • Rotem and Osama, an Israeli and Palestinian pair who overcame their exclusionary upbringing to renounce violence and become friends.
  • Alon-Lee Green and Sally Abed, Jewish and Palestinian Israeli citizens who have led Standing Together.
  • Rabbi Hanan Schlesinger and Noor Awad, who have come together to promote peace via despite living as unequals in the Occupied West Bank
  • Ahmed Fouad Alkhatib, an American refugee from Palestine, who has maintained radical empathy for Israelis dozens of his family members being killed in airstrikes, and a relative currently detained with no charges or explanation (AKA taken hostage).
  • Dahlia Scheindlin, an American Israeli who has done her best to educate the world on the disgusting toll of this tragedy.
  • My friends at SF Bay for Peace, who have gone out of their way to set up a safe space to discuss sensitive topics and mourn the loss of all lives.
  • Rula Hardal and May Pundak, leaders of A Land for All proposal for an Israel/Palestine confederation.
  • A crazy WhatsApp group I’ve been dragged into that has Jews, Muslims, and others from all over the world, including Gaza itself. While far from agreeing with each other, there is at least a shared understanding that war needs to end and children deserve to live.
  • Others in the community (both in real life an online, including Twitter acquaintances), family, and some friends who I have cried with, vented to, struggled with coping during these times.
Unfortunately, even in these comforting spaces, I see the pain and intractability of the conflict. Those who seek to humanize both sides get attacked-even getting death threats, from both sides. To some, this war seems to be a game where one can achieve safety just by killing the other side-even their babies. Caring for others is enough to get tarred as a traitor or a fake Jew. Enough. Solidarity should not be transactional. There are innocent people on all sides, no matter their political beliefs. Join an organization fighting for peace and justice for everyone. Donate to organizations devoted to the cause (see suggestions in my previous post. Tell your representatives that all lives are precious. Stop the violence, stop the hate. I am tired of pleas for violence receiving a disproportionate share of media and political attention. Let us come together to support an end to the deaths of Israelis and Palestinians, an end to the conflict, and freedom for Israelis and Palestinians everywhere.

Tuesday, July 2, 2024

Antisemitism is Real, but Dehumanizing Palestinians Only Makes Things Worse

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Humanitarian Aid for Gaza

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After October 7th, I was horrified to see the immediate reaction from many in the global community to be a callous lack of compassion for the humanity of the Israeli victims. In the ensuing days, as I wrote in October, many so-called “pro-Palestinian” groups predicated support for Palestinians by dismissing the real pain of Israelis, including the families of those killed or taken hostage. Among other examples, a New York University law student refused to show any empathy towards Israelis, stating “Israel bears full responsibility for this tremendous loss of life.” They were one of multiple “pro-Palestinian” activists who callously tore down posters of hostages, demonstrating regressive values. In my hometown of Berkeley, city council meetings have been disrupted by a crowd that demeaned and harassed councilmembers and spit on a Holocaust survivor and called her a “Zionist pig”. The hatred is real, and the dismissal of increasingly bigoted and dehumanizing rhetoric across the country and the world should not be taken lightly. But empathy should never be a one-way street, and the reality is the pro-Israel community, from otherwise liberal Jews to the president of the United States have simply shut down their compassion when it comes to Palestinians.

As horrible as October 7th was for Israelis and the sympathetic Jewish community, Palestinians in Gaza have experienced the equivalent of October 7th in death and destruction every week since. There is nowhere safe, nowhere to hide, and without thousands of dollars of bribes, nowhere to escape. There are no magic words condemning Hamas that will bring Palestinians safety. Famine has engulfed Gaza, aided by rampant Israeli obstruction of delivery and distribution of food. Most buildings are destroyed by Israeli bombs. And what do our leaders do? They deflect, deny, dehumanize all the same as those marching in the streets on October 8th. More than 35,000 dead, tens of thousands more permanently injured, at least hundreds of thousands starving, and so many who are supposed to be representing me-in the Jewish community and the Democratic Party, can hardly show a minimum level of empathy. 

Nearly every day for the last 6+ months, the Biden administration demonstrates callous disregard to what Palestinians are going through. One of the most memorable instances of this was Biden’s statement recognizing 100 days after October 7th. The statement referred to 100 days of captivity for hundreds of hostages with zero mention of the tens of thousands of Palestinians killed, not to mention thousands of others who had been imprisoned in Israel without due process for weeks, months, or years, many tortured, several killed. Nor does it mention the increased horror and despondence in the West Bank as settlers have been allowed to traipse through Palestinian villages with impunity and Israeli forces have killed hundreds more Palestinians, many of them civilians. Nothing should detract from the legitimate pain hostage families are going through, but empathy must not stop there.  

Instead of condemning and punishing Israeli settlers who are violating Palestinian human rights day in and day out, the US condemns the ICC for holding Israel at all accountable for the conduct of its leaders. President Biden said the decision to charge Israeli officials is “outrageous” and that “whatever this prosecutor might imply, there is no equivalence — none — between Israel and Hamas.” Instead of recognizing a Palestinian state, the US says there can be no Palestinian state until nonexistent negotiations occur. Instead of cutting off weapons that are used to indiscriminately kill civilians, the US signs a package for billions more in weapons sales and expedites weapons shipments. Despite government workers pleading that Israel is flouting humanitarian law in its denial of humanitarian aid and reckless actions in Gaza, the Biden administration deflected and denied that there are clear war crimes. The claim is that certain actions are “inconsistent with international law”, a similar statement to what is uttered in response to Israel’s occupation of the West Bank. However, while the administration has plenty of time to condemn protestors, they refuse to issue such open criticism of any of Israel’s policies. Unfortunately, it often seems that even in the Democratic Party, many politicians are either in agreement with or unwilling to challenge the “pro-Israel” AIPAC lobby that won’t even acknowledge that people in Gaza are starving. 

Maryland Senator Chris Van Hollen has been one of the few members of the Democratic establishment to call out the state department’s contortions in its report. A longtime state department official resigned, protesting the politicized conclusions of the report. Unfortunately, such moral clarity is far from the norm. Jewish organizations that are supposed to be combating anti-Semitism and hatred have closed their hearts and decided that defending Israel is more important. The Anti-Defamation League has been more concerned with defending Israel’s every move than moving towards justice. The ADL, along with several other Jewish organizations, castigated Chuck Schumer, a consistent defender of Israel, for simply stating that Benjamin Netanyahu is an obstacle to peace. The ADL has attacked anti-Zionism and defended Israel’s war at every turn, as if that is helping combat antisemitism. While anti-Zionist activism can be rife with hatred and unrealistic solutions, going after free speech is not the solution. Moreover, the ADL has ignored the pleas of hostage families begging Jewish institutions to support a hostage deal that would end the war. ADL has refused to even speak to hostage families and has consistently attacked calls for a ceasefire regardless of the source. When ceasefire pleas are either castigated or ignored and even mild criticism of Israel is considered antisemitic, it will only push protests towards more extreme positions.

The Jewish Community Relations Council in the San Francisco Bay Area, purportedly the “largest collective voice for the Jewish community” in the region, similarly fans the flames of hatred. They are certainly more slick than the brazen displays of anti-Israeli and broader anti-Semitic messages that have permeated pro-Palestinian rallies, but they serve to regularly dehumanize the Palestinian cause. Similar to ADL and other groups, JCRC puts defense of Israel above care for Jews or the community. The term “blood libel” has been used as a shield to dismiss any allegations of war crimes on Israel’s part. Whether or not you call it a genocide, Israel, it is grossly irresponsible to deny any agency to the reality that Israeli soldiers committing horrific atrocities. As Israeli political scientist Dahlia Scheindlin put it in a January Haaretz column, “Israel has done terrible things to innocent people.”

In response to the ICC’s application for an arrest warrant for both Israeli and Hamas leaders,  JCRC tweeted "We reject the International Criminal Court's charges against Israel's leaders as absurd. However you feel about Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and the way this war has been waged under his watch, it is false, misleading and reprehensible to draw any moral equivalence.”  This statement shows an offensive disregard to the multitude of documented instances of disregard for humanity and attacks on civilians, which have been inflaming tensions that have spiraled throughout the months following October 7th. The idea that holding Israel accountable is “absurd” is frankly offensive in and of itself. Israel is held to a different standard compared to any other wealthy western country. In fact, Israel is held to a lower standard than Russia by US foreign policy. While many US politicians on both sides of the aisle have been quick to label Russia’s incursion into Ukraine a “genocide”, hardly anyone in power has expressed the same sentiment against Israel’s massacres, despite many statements from Israeli officials (including those opposed to Netanyahu) demeaning Palestinian lives. And it’s not just the word “genocide” that is a turnoff-oftentimes, Palestinian lives are not even mentioned.

With help from manipulating institutions, reflexive defense of Israel’s military actions has bled into the broader American Jewish community. While Jews tend to be overwhelmingly liberal Democrats, when it comes to the war on Gaza, humanity seems to have been lost. Compared to the overall American populace, Jews are more supportive of Israel and of the deadly campaign against Palestinians. 62% of Jews said in March that Israel’s fighting of the war is “acceptable” compared to 38% of the American public and only 5% of Muslims. Only Evangelical Christians are more supportive of the war. Liberal San Francisco’s “Unity March” against anti-Semitism was a jarring reminder of how insensitive many otherwise liberal Democrats are towards Palestinians. There was not a single word against the horrors Israel has released onto Gaza. There was no recognition of the suffering and dehumanization Palestinians have experienced for decades. San Francisco's mayor and state senator have every responsibility to decry anti-Semitism, but combating hatred should not come with acceptance of anti-Palestinian bigotry. While Palestinians were hardly mentioned for most of the rally, the concluding remarks were from an Israeli representative who demonized all Palestinians for the actions of a few on October 7th. A woman attending the rally claimed that no one in Gaza was innocent because she knew a soldier who found a copy of Mein Kampf in every household. There are certainly real issues with antisemitism in Palestine and throughout the Arab and Muslim world, but that does not mean everyone is a terrorist or that violent retribution is an acceptable response.

It should not be hard to acknowledge the horror that has been imposed on Gaza is not solely the fault of Hamas. It should not be hard to acknowledge the link between Israeli terror in the West Bank and Palestinian support for acts of terror  in response. Before you say “But Hamas”, consider whether you truly think that it’s okay that the country you are defending has clear patterns of torturing prisoners. A lawyer who visited one of the detention facilities called it “more horrific than Abu Ghraib”. Palestinians have been detained for months without charges. Many were non-combatants, or at least they were prior to getting tortured for months and then released. Americans should have no illusions about a war with thousands of videos posted by soldiers blatantly disregarding and disrespecting any semblance of Palestinian humanity. “In many pictures and videos that have circulated since the conflict began, and which were reposted by pro-Palestinian activists to millions of followers, IDF soldiers are seen blowing up buildings in Gaza while in combat, waving women’s underwear like flags and rifling through the possessions of Gazans with gleeful expressions.” We cannot look the other way at such a rampant display of inhumanity. This is neither a sustainable strategy to defeat terrorism nor is it okay for the Jewish community to dismiss or excuse such horrific behavior.

Within the darkness that has encompassed the world, there have been some beacons of hope. Standing Together is one organization that has stood strong for its radical inclusivity of Palestinians and Jews working together towards reconciliation and peace. Unfortunately, the forces of hate outnumber the voices for peace. Support for a Palestinian state among Israeli Jews was already underwater before October 7th and it has sunk below 25% since. And both Israelis and Palestinians largely support an exclusionary vision of Israel-Palestine that includes a combination of ethno-supremacy and ethnic cleansing. This is not a sustainable path forward. Nor does it reflect our Jewish values. Those of us privileged enough to be disconnected from the conflict should speak up more. In the United States, Israeli-lead peace vigils have drawn crowds of dozens  to hundreds compared to tens of thousands to hundreds of thousands at hate-filled marches that are devoid of compassion for the other side. Enough of the hackneyed narratives that Israeli Jews can only be considered evil occupiers or Palestinians are all terrorists. There are hard truths that need to be confronted, but we are all human beings, and we need to do better.

We must also acknowledge that the dehumanization did not start on October 7th, and the end of this war, if and when it comes, will leave many wounds that will take decades to heal. Amid the ruling Israeli coalition’s support of a far-reaching judicial overhaul threatening further degradation of Israel’s democracy, Jewish groups, including ADL and the Jewish Federations of North America did come together, with even the Conservative movement stating that the “reform” “represents a clear and present danger to the country’s independent judiciary, which may still come under further assault.” Unfortunately, the movement against judicial reform was largely devoid of any acknowledgement of the continued subjugation of stateless Palestinians, settler violence and land grabs, and rampant discrimination against the non-Jewish citizens of Israel. Palestinians have been subject to such humiliation for decades. While Israel’s political mainstream has lurched so far away from acknowledgement of Palestinian dignity, we can do our part to combat dehumanization here.

We call on you, elected and appointed leaders in the Jewish Community, supporters of organizations like the ADL and JCRC, and all who believe in the just and legitimate fight for social justice and liberation to join with us to use our power and privilege to change the conversation about Israel to one that is centered on shared humanity. 

  • Ensure that all public statements recognize the humanity of all peoples in the region. 
  • Demonstrate through votes and advocacy that our tax dollars only support actions that are consistent with international law  
  • Support federal policy to hold the Israeli government accountable for their inhumane actions
  • Support federal and state policy to block Americans from funding extremist and illegal settlements
  • Work collaboratively with groups and individuals who support a just, safe, and sustainable peace for Palestinians and Israelis